Because I had the early photos of Aunt Ella Clements Luckert, Uncle Rich's first wife, I wanted to include the only photos I have of her sister, Sarah/Sally, Uncle Chet's first wife. Uncle Chet and Aunt Sally had two children, Kenneth Lee (b. 8 August 1928-d. ) and Darlene LuRee (b. 19 June 1934). They came up for vacations to stay in the old Niobrara State Park every summer from South Omaha. They lived just south of the Union Stockyards, second to Chicago's by 1947, largest in the nation from 1955-1971, which helped shape South Omaha and was where Jack/Dad worked when he came down here to play baseball until he was injured at one of the packing houses (Armour, Cudahy, Swift, and Wilson). When you were at their house, you knew by your nose where the stockyards were when the wind was from the north. Uncle Chet came up for fishing and hunting trips, too, and, of course, there were special occasions, reunions and such. Aunt Sally still had family in the area.
Aunt Sally was a notable character in her own right, as piously fundamental as could be, a devout Baptist who appended Biblical quotations to every subject and insured her children could recite large sections of Scripture. She was little, very erect, easily shocked, kindly enough--at least to me--but had a goiter, which made for noisy breathing problems and at night a distracting unearthly sound even louder than Grandpa Luckert's snoring, which is why everyone tried to go to sleep before either or else spend hours thinking of new ways to blot out the sounds. She henpecked both Chet and Kenneth, kept a very tidy house, clearly ruled even her daughter. I just realized that I knew a number of little women like that, especially steel-corseted Grandma Rose Clark, our Sunday School superintendent in my childhood, tiny and powerful, railing against dancing (our dances had intermissions between 11:30 and midnight and then continued for another hour or two into Sunday, gasp!) and other sinful conduct. She and Aunt Sally could just as well have been related.
The only pictures I have of Kenneth are those from the Newman Grove reunion a few entries earlier. He was well-liked, very polite, and quiet, whom Sally nagged into a nervous breakdown in his 20s over a loan he'd made to family, and he spent the rest of his life institutionalized, with Chet occasionally getting him and bringing him up briefly for a few days, a sadness for all of us. Darlene was a city snob as far as I was concerned, because of Center's village status and the tiny size of my school next to her Omaha South High. She was also nearly four years older, vain about her looks, spoiled by her dad, but she was stuck with me anyway. When she brought a girl friend along, life was a matter of enduring, and Mom always insisted on good manners. Actually, we got along fairly well through books and piano, though I never understood her periodic nervous fits when she would yank out hanks of her hair. I'll make a brief entry later of her family, but she has also had a sad ending: when they could no longer handle her, her husband and daughter had to institutionalize her, because she has Alzheimer's and would fly into rages, often not knowing them.
Aunt Lizzie was, always, a marvel of energy. Uncle Vern had died in 1939, and she'd brought up her daughters (Clark was married in 1935) and run her farm all by herself. I've always been aware of the strong women on the Peters side. Aunt Elizabeth Mae Luckert Stocking was a living example of farm woman strength and capabilities to match any man's long before the 1970s Women's Lib. She not only plowed, sowed, cultivated, reaped her fields but took care of her farm and chores. She could fix a fence or milk a cow. And she loved horses beyond reason, filling her house with pictures and brass and china miniatures, all kinds of versions. She also held most of the family reunions, traveled wherever she wished, rode on trail rides and in parades, could talk to anyone and did, could outtalk anyone and did, could be very sentimentally weepy or tell a dirty joke or blister someone's ears. You would hear her before she got to you. She had an incandescent energy and certainly held her own with her brothers. I've mentioned that we had a special bond through Uncle Vern, and so it's no surprise she was my favorite of Dad's family, and we knew her children's families the best, for three of them lived in the area, and Clark's visited regularly, Alyce's when possible.
Alyce Ella was her youngest (b. 14 September 1923- ), married to Norman Festus Wilson (b. 17 June 1923- ) in 1943, a Bloomfield boy who played baseball--like Dad--so well, he made the minor leagues. His recent funeral had a baseball theme and included hot dogs and pop and a hearse trip around the Minnesota ball diamond before burial. They moved a lot, mostly across the South, so Connie Lou was born 12 August 1944 in Oklahoma City, but Mark Norman was born 31 October 1958 in Springfield, Minnesota, where they finally landed.
So here are an afternoon's pictures in Center at our house with those five, Velma behind the camera as usual.
There's Aunt Sally, who pointedly did not like her picture taken. I enjoy these photos also for what they show of the house where I was born and Center. For example, in the left photo is Joe Ballard's smelly old blacksmith shop at the left, at the right the town hall (originally a two-story hotel, gutted), a prime social center where we played high school basketball, had class plays and graduation, danced, watched movies (the movies were outside in summers on a screen hung up), held school and church dinners and carnivals. The photo further shows that Dad had just planted the privet hedge marking the west edge of our long lawn.
And there's Aunt Lizzie on our broad front porch, the width of the house, with the neighbor's cedar and box elder (bugs all over) trees, probably the Berans at this time. That's the sidewalk I went to school on, up the hill unseen here.
That's Alyce holding Connie Lou in front of the big living room window I once sat through while putting on my overshoes. We had always those metal lawn chairs, a bit bouncy. We spent a great deal of time on that porch, only a half block from uptown, across the street from Dad's garage and gas station, so we could watch the town action or have neighbors strolling or driving by stop to gossip, besides which that's where I played, especially on rainy days, and we shelled peas and snapped beans and drank Kool Aid or iced tea and caught the cooling breeze in warm weather. The folks were very popular, so we had lots of chat traffic, Dad happy to tell his stories, Mom enthusiastic over visitors.
That's Darlene LuRee. We have Connie Lou between us. Aunt Sally is in the far background in the other lawn chair, Aunt Lizzie by the folks' front bedroom where I was born, Alyce behind me by the front door.
Darlene and I are uncommonly friendly on the front steps. The lattice work around the bottom of the porch was one of my banes, timely to paint and not keeping out a skunk or other creatures I was delegated to get rid of.
